A vanilla friend of mine and I had an odd conversation today. I’m not even sure how we got on the topic, but we were talking about orgasms from clitoral stimulation. She stated that after two or three orgasms she’s done and sated. She also stated that she doesn’t need or want sex sometimes even joking about how she tells her husband she has a headache and therefore gets out of preforming.
I’m the opposite. I can go all day and all night long and still I want more. Master makes sure I’m beyond satisfied so maybe it’s just the way I’m wired, but even after the best sex ever I find myself wanting more of him. Maybe that’s part of what makes me a slave. I would never say no to begin with but I’ve found that when I have a headache coming on sex is a great way to make it go away!Master loves that I’m horny for him all day every day. I love that he takes full advantage of the fact that I’ll never turn him down for it either. I just can’t get enough of his cock!!
Anyway, my conversation with my friend got me thinking… I can’t be the only one who constantly wants sex even after just having had sex. How many of you are never fully satisfied?
On a side note, I move in with Master in about a week. My blog is on the back burner for right now because packing and getting ready for the move takes priority. Please be patient with me for the next week or two! Thanks,
-ariia
I with you on this one, ariaa! If I had my druthers, I'd have sex ALL the time! Daddy loves it that I'm always hot and ready for him (he also loves it that even if I weren't ready for him, he could still use me all he wanted)…Man, is it getting warm in here??? ;)Take care and good luck with the moving preparations!Baby Girl :)
*I'm* with you…(argh. I can't stand typos!)
You're not alone in constantly wanting sex. A lot of women do. Women are very sexual beings and many of them are into multiple orgasms. And imagine how much you're going to get when you move in with him.Be sure to tell us about the move and your next adventures.FD
I love the place you are at with your sexuality. This is a great place to be, and being so open minded and free with your Master is what it is all about. Good for you!DV
absolutely agree with you. i'd never experienced wanting (or– being ready is a better phrase, i suppose) for sex all the time until i was with Master.Especially when He cums in me.. oh my god that just sets me off all over again.Great post and good luck with the packing!-r.
Maybe your friend is just bored with her situation. I am always ready for a romp.Good luck with you move,Carrie
hey you are not alone… count me in :)
I have to agree that your friend is not getting everything she needs from her current relationship. I also have an insatiable hunger for my Master, and tho he completely satisfies me, I am always ready for more.Great blog by the way! Hope you don't mind me jumping in and commenting.
I'm TOTALLY with you on this. I've heard tell of this "good enough" place of myth and legend, but for me I can't even imagine it. I can flop back on the bed sweaty, panting, exhausted, but any hint of a chance at more from Master and I'm back up and begging for it!BTW, just found your blog but loving reading back through the archives!
This is probably the hardest aspect of my relationship with my Master. I absolutely love him and he just makes me hot as hell but I seem to have a major disconnect between my brain and the lower half of my body. I always want sex but I rarely get physical release from it even when Master demands it. I always feel horrible that I fail him at this. Just more to work on.
There are a LOT of women who can’t get off from vaginal sex alone. And personally I can’t get off from anal (not that we’ve tried it very often, we’re currently in the “not really interested right now anyway” stage)
Are you on meds at all? Sometimes those can SERIOUSLY fuck with your libido. For the LONGEST time I stopped getting off altogether and couldn’t figure out why till a friend of mine said “Autumn, you’re on Zoloft. That KILLS your sex drive.”
I don’t get off from any kind of sex except very very rarely. Maybe once every 2-3 months. I’ve had this issue for about 7 years now. It came into play within a few months of having my son. Before that, there wasn’t really an issue.
I’m not on any meds yet. I cant get any until February when my next appointment is.
Did they tie your tubes after having your son? They tied mine about 10 years ago (they CUT and tied them – something I specifically asked them NOT to do, long long long story)
My libido has never been the same since.
My suggestion (if you don’t mind) is to kindly explain to your master that this frustrates the piss out of you too and if you could change it you WOULD! And tell him that there are many, many other ways you can serve him without feeling bad about not being able to do as he requests. You can’t help not orgasming, it’s NOT something we would EVER willingly give up. At least not for such a long period of time!! (Most of us anyway, I’m sure there’s a fetish for it out there somewhere though) Orgasm DENIAL is not the same as “Simply cannot achieve orgasm” :(
No no tubes tied. We might want more children, not 100% sure yet so this option was left. He knows it frustrates me. When he demands one and I can’t I break down into what he refers to as heart breaking tears that take a while to calm down. I miss my pre-baby orgasms. I’ve found some alternatives that please him to a similar degree that I employ when they are allowed.
If you want to move this to a more private conversation I completely understand just let me know. I want to help but I don’t want to step over the invisible line either lol.
Do you exercise? How old is baby? Im guessing 7 since you said it’s been 7 years…. silly question, sorry.
Gosh, I wish I could just wave a wand and fix this for you, I HATE not being able to make everyone happy :(
Do you see a regular doctor? Do you have insurance? I know that’s a LOT of questions, again sorry if I’m overstepping here. <3
That sounds like a good idea. Will message you
Thanks, I’m sure you don’t want your whole life story blasted to everyone who reads my blog <3 I put my stuff out there obviously but I would never ask that of my readers <3